Marriage: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Marriage: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Renewing or reneging on the marriage commitment is, for most people, their biggest discernment ever. Many factors go into the decision, but the core dilemma is often integrity versus suffering. Commitment means something; it has enduring power within conscience (though its limits are rarely explored). Marriage highly structures social and private life, thereby creating family. Will anyone recognize … Continue reading

Divorce First Aid

Divorce First Aid

There is the first to know and then there is the second to know. This note is for the one who did not see it coming, or hoped that it would pass. Divorce is premature death, a marriage succumbing to a fatal disease. The funeral arrangements can take a very long time and the burial … Continue reading